Do You Want Your Sexy Back?

If you’ve been following my recent blogposts, you already know that I’ve been coming out of the closet and sharing more and more of who I am.  Well, I’m doing it again today.  I have this superpower that very few people know about.  I am really good at helping people get their sexy back.  For some, this means improving their sex life exponentially, for others, it means finding the magic in the mundane.  For me personally, it’s about being me, all of me….without apology.

For example I went to the gas station the other day and the guy who waited on me was a hoot.  (I live in New Jersey…Jersey Girls & Guys don’t pump their own gas LOL).  Anyway, the gas station attendant was quite “attentive”.  He was talking to me the entire time we were waiting for my car to fill up…and even though I didn’t fully engage, I didn’t ignore him either.

Part of my “sexy” is knowing when someone’s words or actions don’t quite line up with their energy.  This guy was really friendly, but something was off (and not in the creepy serial killer kind of way).  As the attendant was finishing up, I saw his name tag and said, “You know, your name is the same name as one of my favorite angels.”  Everything in his energy field stopped and the man really focused on me.  “Really?”, he said.  And I replied, “Yes.  Your name is Michael and Archangel Michael is the Angel of Protection.”  With that, I could literally see this man’s mask and false persona drop away.  With all seriousness and maybe a hint of sadness he told me that that’s what he does.  He tries to protect everyone so they can be happy and I shared that I knew that to be so.  It was such an amazing, vulnerable moment and I saw his first real smile.  How does it get more beautiful than that?

When you have your sexy back….you enjoy being yourself.  You become accepting of all of you.  You magnetize tons of fun and enjoyable experiences.  You find the magic in the mundane.  PLUS, you can make more money, you can have better relationships, and you can have amazing sex whether you have a partner or not, if that’s what you want.

Would you like to have more of that?  I’m inviting you to join me for a free google hangout on September 29 at 8pm est (NY).  I’ll be sharing some of the ways that I’ve cleared the crap and got my sexy back.

Don’t worry if you can’t make it live, I’ll be sending out the recording…but only if you’ve registered.

Register here now….

I’m looking forward to “seeing” you on the 29th!  We are going to have lots of fun!

Much love and abundant blessings,

Who Are You Being?

I have a confession to make.  I have been lying to myself…and to you…for a long, long time.  If I were to hazard a guess, I’d say I’ve been lying to myself (and, therefore, everyone else) for more than 40 years.

You see, it all started back in the 70’s when I had a huge crush on Donny Osmond.  I would sing “Go Away Little Girl” and “Puppy Love” for hours….and yes, my hairbrush was my microphone.  I’d daydream about Donny magically finding me in my home at the end of the block and declaring his undying love for me and we’d live happily ever after.  I would stare at his picture while making up stories about how perfect our life together would be and read and re-read the articles written about him in Tiger Beat Magazine. 

One day, I decided that if I really wanted him to find and love me, I had to start showing him how perfect I was for him.  I wrote hundreds of letters (all unmailed because I was too scared to actually send them) explaining why I was his perfect match.

Now, back in the day, Donny was known for his love of purple and always wore purple socks.  So, if Donny was ever going to return my undying love for him, I Knew that I had to become a purple lover.  I always liked purple, but it wasn’t my favorite color…until I declared it to be on that fateful day. 

Of course, Donny never found me and I moved onto bigger and better things like Shawn Cassidy, Leif Garrett, Scott Baio and eventually Jon Bon Jovi.  Oh, and The Rock, I can’t forget Duane the Rock Johnson…and L.L. Cool J and Tom Cruise for a little while and….well, you get the picture.  LOL

Back to favorite colors….so I never got my “happily ever after” with Donny, but I had grabbed onto the purple persona so tightly that it stayed with me for years.  I remember being in high school and noticing that most of the girls I hung around with said purple was their favorite color.  I held tight to my secret that it wasn’t actually mine because  I wanted to fit in….I wanted to be who these people wanted me to be.  I thought that was who I was supposed to be. 

When David created my first website, it was mostly green with a touch of purple because I thought those were the colors a professional healer was supposed to have.  I don’t know why.  I also remember telling him that purple was my favorite color…the habit was so ingrained that I actually forgot it wasn’t. 

This all may sound silly to you, but I really wanted to share with you how lying to ourselves about one small thing, pretending we like something that we don’t, trying to fit ourselves into someone else’s mold so they’ll like us can haunt us forever. 

Today, I’m asking you to look at your life.  Where are you doing something similar…even if it’s in a small way?  Take notice of it, acknowledge it, and make the choice to at least be honest with yourself.  As for me, well, I’ve been slowly but surely embracing my actual favorite color….Pink…but not just any old pink…what I love is big, bold FUSCHIA. 

Have an awesome week!

Much Love and Abundant Blessings,

PS  If you feel like you could use some help in embracing your true self, I can help.  Schedule a Soul Archaeology Session here.

Will You Choose to Rise Up?

Things have been quite interesting in my life lately.  I made a demand of myself to be, do, and have more.  More what?  More joy, more love, more money, more fun, more ease, more Me.  The Universe heard and I’m now smack dab in a whirlwind of craziness.

I was gifted with an amazingly powerful healing modality that is changing people’s lives…mine included.  Basically, during the process, you reclaim your power and yourself and banish unsupportive energies.  It’s quite empowering. 

Here’s the thing, when you ask for change, when you ask to be more of You, when you ask to be more Powerful (we’re talking Divine Power…not overpowering other people)…..it shakes things up in your world.  A good part of the new age, spiritual, and self-help community likes to make this sound all flowery and pretty because ultimately, you end up in a better place when the smoke clears…but they don’t tell you there’s going to be a lot smoke and fire.  On the one hand, I can understand why…how many people who are already slugging through the quagmire of shit will choose to trade the one they know for a new quagmire of shit?  How many of them are actually going to believe they can get to the other side and experience beauty, peace, love, and joy in ways they never could have imagined?

For those of us who bought into the promises that peace, ease, and joy would be ours just by changing our thoughts, the truth of personal and spiritual growth can be quite disheartening.  We don’t understand how much of our lives can actually fall apart before we get to the other side.  The concept of “something better” is just that, a concept.  We have no clue of just how much is not supporting us and when we’re in the middle of the new shit storm, we question ourselves, our faith, our beliefs, and we think we did something wrong. 

I’ve lived through many periods of feeling like I’ve failed at spirituality and personal growth.  I’ve lived through many times of thinking I must have done something wrong because no one explained establishing faith and growing could be so hard and painful….but here’s the deal….when they talk about the other side…they’re not lying.  When you move through the shit storm and come out the other side you are so much more You…life is way more beautiful…and more things come to you with ease….until you decide to ask for more again.  We’re human, we’re always going to want more of something…even if it’s not specifically for you…even if it’s peace on earth…to feed the hungry….to stop animal cruelty.  In order to achieve these goals, the current foundations must crumble so they can be rebuilt.  We can’t rebuild onto the current foundations because they are simply not strong enough to support and sustain the new.

I’m laughing at myself right now.  Why?  Because I’m going through some major challenges that are requiring me to be more of me (just like I asked), they are requiring me to have more of me (just like I asked), and for me to do more as I would if I were being me (just like I asked).  At times I’m reduced to a puddle of tears, at others, I’m yelling at the heavens…I ask myself what I did wrong….but underneath it all, I don’t mean any of it.  It’s all simply my way of releasing stuff that’s not supporting me in being the best me that I can.  The real irony of it all, is that it coincides with me sharing this powerful new Soul Archaeology process called Reclamation of Power. 

I know the process works because I’m watching my clients rise up and explode into amazing new beings with amazing new lives.  I know the process works because every single time I try to be a victim, I can’t…at least not for long.  I try to blame other people for my current challenges and I can’t.  I try to blame spirit for not giving me a heads up beforehand, and I can’t.  Why?  Because it’s all a lie.  I know that I’m creating this situation in conjunction with the Universe so I can be, do, and have more…more of me.  It’s a big demand and, therefore, requires big changes.  When I ask for smaller things, the shift usually is less dramatic….but then again, it depends on how attached I am to what I’m being asked to change. 

Years ago, this change would have taken months…or maybe even years before I surrendered to what’s going on…that is, if I was able to surrender.  Now, I go through phases that generally last no more than 24 hours.  I’m no longer afraid to ask for prayers and support from my community….some teachers are afraid to ask to because it makes them appear weak and less than perfect.  Not me, I’d rather practice what I preach.  We have support available to us from a multitude of resources and there is no shame in asking for help.  Plus, I’d rather be real and live by example than pretend to be what I’m not.  Life happens.  Shit happens.  In the end, you have two choices.  You can either to choose to stay stuck in the quagmire or Rise Up and move forward….even when it’s hard.

  I choose to Rise Up.

 What’s your choice?

 

Much love and abundant blessings,

       If your choice is to Rise Up and you’d like some help, schedule a                                                     Soul Archaeology session now.

 

What’s Your Purpose

English: Fingerprint (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

How many times have you wondered what your life purpose is?  I know I’ve spent what seems like eons trying to figure it out.  Even after I started my own healing business…I wondered if this is what I was really meant to do here on earth.  Even after I started  teaching…I wondered if I’m really  supposed to be teaching spirituality…it seemed like such a lofty career…and who the heck was I to be teaching anyway?  My life isn’t perfect.  Then I felt pushed and pushed to write a book…so I did and ‘lo and behold, it was a bestseller.  Who knew?

Now, I didn’t just decide to become a healer, teacher, or author because it was what I wanted to do…instead it was more like I was compelled.  Compulsion is a funny thing.  It can come from the head (fear based ego) or it come from Spirit.  I really had to sit with my decisions to be sure that they didn’t come from me wanting to be something that I’m not.  Once I came to the understanding that the compulsion came from Spirit, I set about making each aspect of my career happen.  Yet, I still wondered.  I mean, I’d been told by other psychics and healers that this is what I was meant to do, and it felt right.  However, my logical mind needed something more and it got it.  Finally.

I recently learned about Scientific Hand Analysis which was created by Richard Unger.  According Baeth Davis, “Hand analysis is a scientifically verifiable practice, used by psychologists and neurosurgeons around the world.  Hand analysis is scientific because :

• it is repeatable from hand to hand
• it’s provable
• it’s useful, practical information you can implement in your day to day life”

Our fingerprints, which are formed 5 months before we are born, hold the key.  The hand analyst who read my hands identified my fingerprints and using Richard Unger’s system was able to pinpoint not only my Life Purpose, but also my Life Lesson.  Your Life Lesson basically encompasses the types of challenges you will meet on your journey to fulfilling your highest potential (Life Purpose).  I cannot begin to express the full impact of what this reading had on my life…but I can tell you this….it gave me the physical evidence that my logical mind needed to embrace my Life Purpose.  You see, according to my finger prints, I am here to be a healer, a spiritual teacher, an author, and to create community.  The beauty of this process is I can go to any hand analyst in the world, and she/he will tell me the same exact thing without  even knowing me.

Oh, I mentioned that I learned what my Life Lesson is….my Life Lesson is Love.  Love should be an easy lesson, but it’s far from easy.  It’s learning how to express yourself authentically, yet appropriately.  It’s about accepting and loving the self…accepting love from others as well as loving others.  It’s about being free enough to authentically express your love without worrying about how others are going to react to it…or worrying about if they will receive it….and that’s just the tip of the iceberg.  

I found this to be such a powerful system that I had to add to my toolbox….especially when I saw a quote from Caroline Myss where she refers to hand analysis as “a straightforward and easily accessible assessment tool for individuals who want to know their life purpose”.  I deeply respect Caroline Myss and her no nonsense attitude toward spirituality.  The way I saw it was if she was willing to get behind this system, then I knew it had to be the real deal.

If you feel like you’re here to something more or you’re wondering what your purpose is, then I highly suggest getting a hand reading.  I’ve added hand analysis to all my coaching programs now.  It allows me to immediately focus on the nitty gritty without wasting time.  My clients are consistently amazed at the confirmation and understanding they receive.  It’s somehow comforting knowing that there is nothing “wrong” with you…that your challenges are not because you did something “wrong”, instead they are what you came into this world to master.

I’m running a special on all hand analysis readings for the month of October.  In addition to your reading, you will receive a custom designed angelically channeled bracelet (for a man or a woman) created from a variety of gemstones that support both your Life Purpose and your Life Lesson at no extra cost.  ($65.00 value)  If this sounds interesting to you,  click here to read more about the session.

My hand analysis reading became an invaluable tool for both my professional and personal lives.  Every time I question what I’m doing or wonder why I’m hitting a brick wall, I look at my hands and immediately remember my Purpose and my Lesson and take it from there…it’s almost like having a road map for life……oh, and for the record, this is not a predictive reading and it’s not going to tell you when you’re getting married, how many kids you’re going to have, or when you’re going to die.  This is all about learning who you are at the deepest core of being.  

Daily Angelic Message for 9/24/12

Many of you are noticing an increase in instant or almost instant manifestations.  Unfortunately, many of you are manifesting what you don’t want as opposed to what you do want.  Why is that?  It’s because you put more energy and emotion behind your words when you talk about the things you don’t like.  You expect the negative, so you get it.  When you catch yourself doing this, immediately cancel your words with at least the same amount of energy you put behind them when you originally spoke them.

With infinite love and joy,
~The Angels~

Daily Angelic Message for 9/19/12

Even if a healing is instananeous, there is a period of time that follows where you learn how to be the next version of  you.  Patience and kindness with yourself is absolutely necessary during this time.  Do your best to avoid falling back into familiar patterns and habits and allow for more beneficial habits to appear.

With infinite love and joy,
~The Angels~

Daily Angelic Message for 9/18/12

If you’re unsure of what your next best action steps should be, ask us to clearly guide you to them.  If you aren’t sure if the guidance is actually coming from us, then ask us to clearly show you the  same guidance three times.

With infinite love and joy,
~The Angels~

Daily Angelic Message for 9/17/12

Chaos or discord almost always precedes a miracle.

With infinite love and joy,
~The Angels~

Daily Angelic Message for 9/8/12

We see that many of you don’t take advantage of your greatest opportunities because they didn’t come in the way you wanted them packaged.  Next time something shows up in an unexpected way, our advice to you is: GO FOR IT.

With infinite love and joy,
~The Angels~

Angelic Forecast for April 2012

Hello beautiful ones.  We have much to say about this month.  As always, spring is a time for new beginnings…for those of you who are moving into autumn, it is also a time of a new beginnings.  It’s time to reap what you’ve sown.  You’ve been working very hard these past months, these past years  actually, and it’s time to step Up and step Into Your True Self and the power that is You.  You have been creating and creating and creating and your magic awaits you.

  For some , this will be easy. You’ve shed your cloak of fear and limitation (or enough of it) to believe and receive this possibility.  For others, you are going to continue to feel the crunch.    The illusion of unworthiness, undeserved-ness, disbelief, and self-loathing is like a weight holding  you down  and it keeps You from seeing the Light that is You.  If you are still living from that space,  April may feel unkind to you.  Rather than feeling it shower you with love in all its forms,  you may feel as the though the sun will never shine again.

 Remember, the choice of how you experience life is yours.  If you choose to believe other people’s lies about you, then you will have a fight on your hands.  If, however, you are able to see through the lies to what is hidden beneath…see the light of the Truth that is within you, you will experience a much more fulfilling, joyous, and expansive month and life.

Now is the time.  This month, this day, and every day.  The wait is over.  While there is always the opportunity for more growth, we are imploring you to begin living from your Truth now.  The ups and downs of life will always be there.  The people who run your governments  and your countries are starting to feel the pressure that the vibration of love can create in  those who operate from fear.   They are, in a sense, fighting back, fighting love.   Are you going to choose to live from a place of fear and constriction like these people, or are you going to live from a place of love and expansion?   Sadness, discord, and disharmony abound.  Yet, it is so much easier to deal with and offset this energy when you are able to see the beauty of life that exists even in the horror.  When you are able to be in the space of love, especially in hard times, you help shift and raise the vibration.  The higher the vibration, the less fear can be fed into the vibration, the more the probability exists for lessening the affects of disharmonious events.

We understand this is not your usual monthly forecast, however, we are in unusual times.  These are times you’ve never experienced before.  We are in a time where you get to write the next chapter.  Now, more than ever is the time begin writing the next chapter from love rather than fear.

New beginnings are upon you.  Embrace them with love, release the fear and remember to ask for help.  We see the great work each and every one of you is doing and acknowledge it.  We love you, we bless you, we appreciate you.

~The Angels~

From Robin:

This month’s message was pretty intense.  The energy was stronger than I usually experience but deeply loving too.  I asked the angels  to suggest some crystals we could benefit from to help carry us through the energy of the month.

Rose Quartz:  This is a stone of love in all it’s forms.  We’re connecting with it to help connect with the love of self and love FROM the Divine.  It also transmutes lower/denser energies to the energy and frequency of love.

Moss Agate:  This is a stone of new beginnings.  It’s a stone that helps you connect with nature (definitely helpful during times of stress).  It helps people to get along and is also a stone of wealth and abundance.